We’ve all grown up with those fairy tale ideas of finding “the one”—our soul mate, our perfect match. But guess what? We’re in a whole new era now—an era of awakening, self-discovery, and elevated consciousness. It’s time to break free from those outdated beliefs and step into a deeper, more authentic expression of love within ourselves. And here’s the magic: when you do that, you open yourself up to a love connection that’s on a whole new level.

So how do you manifest a love that aligns with your soul’s deepest desires? Sia-Lanu Estrella, manifestation guru and author of The Rainbow Tablets: Divine Union and Sacred Sexuality, is ready to reveal how to call in that soul-aligned love you’ve been dreaming of.

Release Spiritual Labels

In recent years, there’s been a lot of buzz about twin flames, soul mates, and soul contracts. These conversations often focus on expectations, attachments, and challenging dynamics. But that energy is tied to the ego, and it can lead people to ignore red flags or cling to an idea rather than the reality of a situation.

We’re now in a time where not only can you live your highest timeline, but you can even exceed your original blueprint. Every person, in their purest form, is an expression of the divine or source. While it’s true you’ve likely shared past lives with many of the people you meet in this one, attaching spiritual labels to relationships can limit them with unrealistic expectations.

When you let go of those labels and simply meet the person where they are, you create a clean, open energy. This allows space for the highest possibilities to unfold. You’ll see the person for who they truly are, rather than who you want them to be. And in turn, your relationship has the chance to be lighter, more pure, deeply cosmic, and fully embodied.

Commit to Your Highest Expression

The greatest purpose of any union is to empower each partner to live their highest expression. When manifesting a relationship that fulfils your soul’s blueprint, you must first commit to yourself. Your heart and soul know what you came to Earth to create. As you step into that expression, not only will you bring fulfilment for yourself, but your frequency will attract the partner who is able to walk alongside you in this expression.

When someone yearns for a partner, sometimes they get caught in an energy of ‘waiting’. This holds them in a lower reality. Then they attract partners who are on that same frequency. And they get stuck in that lesser embodiment.

When you choose yourself, you shine at your brightest. You move from obeying the head to following the heart. You awaken your cosmic wisdom within. And you start to unlock the magic and miracles all around you. This frequency is cosmically aligned to manifesting your highest union, if that is what your heart desires.

So, commit to your own expansion. Read books that open your mind and awaken your cosmic nature. Take part in self-development programs or sacred retreats. Pursue your dreams. As you become the best version of yourself, you are naturally aligning with manifesting your greatest partnership.

Be Clear About Your Intention

Traditional ideas about manifestation often encourage you to get super specific about the kind of partner you’re calling in—everything from their age and whether they have kids, to where they live. But here’s the catch: this approach can actually block your highest potential manifestation.

When you try to control the outcome, you limit the possibilities. What if your perfect partner is a completely different age than you imagined? Or what if your soul’s blueprint is guiding you to relocate, and your divine partner is the catalyst for that transformation? By holding on to rigid ideas, you could be closing off opportunities that are meant to propel you into your next level of fulfillment.

The key is to release those limitations and give the universe room to work its magic. Instead of focusing on specifics, tune into the feeling of the relationship you desire. Maybe you’re seeking a partnership where you both lift each other up, filled with trust, kindness, passion, adventure, and joy.

Breathe that feeling into your body—love, safety, excitement, expansiveness, whatever resonates. With every breath, encode that frequency into your cells and then radiate it out into your auric field.

Not only will this alignment make it easier for your ideal partner to find you, but it will also help you stay grounded in that energy. When you do meet someone, you’ll intuitively feel, on both an energetic and cellular level, whether they truly align with your frequency.

Cleanse and Activate Your Body

You are a multidimensional being experiencing a physical incarnation, and your body serves as a vital partner in this journey. Everything you wish to manifest must flow through your body—it is the gateway to creation. However, when the frequency of your physical vessel is not in harmony with the frequency of your intentions, it becomes more challenging for the universe to deliver your desires. Aligning your body’s energy with your aspirations allows the true magic of manifestation to unfold.

Often, when we experience trauma or heartbreak, we store some of that energy in the body. As you prepare for your highest love union, connect more deeply with your body. Let it talk to you. Where are you stiff, in pain or uncomfortable? These are the places where you are holding energetic blockages or trauma. Do the work to clear them. This could be movement practices like somatic yoga or martial arts. Maybe you might benefit from acupuncture or deep tissue massage. Or it could be a call to healing through ceremony, like attending a sacred retreat.

Your body is also the way you will connect with your partner. When you know how to work with physical intimacy as a cosmic portal, you and your future partner will naturally activate each other into a higher embodiment of your gifts. And you can already start to work with this cosmic portal through personal practice. This will activate your body, so you can awaken your full cosmic nature. You can read more about these practices in The Rainbow Tablets: Divine union and sacred sexuality.

Follow Your Intuition

Once you’ve let go of spiritual labels, committed to your highest self, clarified your intentions, and activated your body as a manifestation portal, something incredible happens—your intuition becomes so much stronger. And when it does, it’s essential to follow it.
Your intuition might come as a “random thought” that feels distinct from your usual thinking. It might be a deep sense of knowing or even a creative impulse in your heart. Whatever form it takes, listen to it and act, because your intuition is responding to a higher, more expansive awareness.

One of my most transformative relationships was with someone I never could have planned to meet. While it wasn’t meant to last long-term, it activated a major shift in my soul’s journey and completely changed the course of my life.

One day, I felt an undeniable pull to visit England. I initially booked my flight for July 1, but on a whim, I decided to fly two days later. There was no logical reason, but I trusted the impulse. On the second flight, another nudge told me to switch from my usual window seat to an aisle seat. I took it, and a man sat by the window with an empty seat between us. We ended up talking for seven hours. I was flying from Lima to London via Miami, and he was heading from Miami to Kyiv through London.

We didn’t live in the same country, we weren’t even flying to the same place, but because I followed my intuition, we met and shared an incredible one-year journey together. You never know when or how you’ll meet your highest union partner, but by tuning into your intuition and these practices, you’ll open the door to manifesting that love and inviting the greatest magic and miracles into your life.